Self Esteem...

Self Esteem...

get some.

Re: Self Esteem...

how whiney has the board got lately?

it seems like every1 is always looking for reassurance about everything they do/how they look etc...

an no1 says anything good cos they're too afraid of peeps being fukked off wi them...

get some self esteem an say what you think...

after all...

"its only a messageboard"

hehe.

I think ive got clinical depression at the min, despite the fact ive got a nice new job, car fixed soon i still feel dead empty :spangled:

erm... ok... didn't quite mean like that, i meant all the peeps who go "i'm really unattractive an have no friends"

hope your feeling better soon mate, jus go out wi ur mates an u'll feel better, always helps wi me

But I am and I haven't!

Bastard!

Nicked my joke!

When ur down tho, its hard to get self esteem/confidence. Trust me, I get like that all the time so I know what it feels like.

I do agree that sum people go way over the top tho.

I am ian... do you mean me?

*gets coat*

hehe, joe low in self esteem...

now then we'd have a fukked up world!

jus pissed off win all this "love me love me" shite...

probs jus me being pissed off wi having to work next week!

its easier said than dun tho, gettin self-esteem i mean.... it reeli reeli is!! havent bin on the board all w'end so not sure who ur reffering to it betta not be me son lol!! although i dont carry on n say all stuff like that!! agreed that sum people need to stop bloody attention seeking n wingeing tho!! xxx

yeah, but i'm not meaning the peeps who really have stuff to feel bad about...

most of those on here have a good group of mates, an should be enjoying life, but jus come on here whining...

if you think you're unattractive/bad company then you probably are!

hehe

rant over

i'm old enough to be your momma!

oh my god u aint meaning me r ya...??!! i dont moan about stuff n that reeli...??!! only sumtimes but i arent meaning it seriously...??!! god im hoping that lil comment isnt directed 2wards me n is just a general statement!! xxx

ahhh bless ya!

no its not about you, jus a general thing, but i suppose its jus cos there's a lot of peeps on here who are in there teens, an every1 whines in there teens!

hehe...

its jus most the peeps who say they're not fit blatently are (from the piccies i've seen)

an those who say they have no mates do!!

again its probs jus me being a bit melodramatic about the whole thing too

That annoys me too!

okays so that lil comment mite be directed towards the likes of me lol cos i always say stuff like that then some of u luvli ppl disagree god bless ya'z but its betta to be like that than to love urself tho...??!! plus some people mite genuinelly believe that they're not, which brings us back to the whole thing of self esteem but aw well i aint gonna get into this lil debate!! who's bin sayin they've got no friends by the way...???!!! now thats sumfink that ya just DONT admit to like lol!! aw bless em stuff like that breaks ma heart!! xxx

yeah fair enough some peeps may have a distorted self image, but it seems to come up way too often on here...

leave all this insecurity to the ugly peeps like me!

shut up ya divvy im sure ur not ugly!! aahhh now look whos the one feelin sorry 4 themselves or were ya sayin that ironically...??!! sorry if ya were im neva to quick with these kinda fings!! xxx

hehe yeah i was...

an you've seen me! so you should've said i'm soooooooooooo boooooooooooooootiful its untrue!

hehe...

an i know it sounds like i'm being a cock on this thread, but i'm not, i jus don't get it when peeps come on here whining instead of doing something about it...

life is yours for the taking my friends!!!

dont fink i hav seen ya like.....???!!
and i think u've got a well good philosophy on stuff by the way, all what ur sayin is true, totally!! some of its easier said than done like but i agree instead of moaning about whateva people should get off their arses n do something about whatevas making them sad...however we are all entitled to a good moan sumtimes, especially us girlies its just in our genes i reckon!! xxx