Is it wrong to sleep with a 16 yr old

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by JockB, Sep 23, 2003.

Users Viewing Thread (Users: 0, Guests: 0)

  1. Yosef Ha'Kohain

    Yosef Ha'Kohain Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 11, 2001
    Messages:
    20,386
    Likes Received:
    5
    Location:
    Zion
    If society wil send off 16 year olds to die in the army then society can't object to 16 year olds sleeping with 30 year olds.

    If as society we're saying 16 year olds are adults, then they can sleep with whom they please... How is it disgusting?
  2. rachel

    rachel Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 12, 2001
    Messages:
    4,724
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    happy happy!! :)
    i just think its a bit sad that they cant get anyone their own age n that they have to go for people that much younger it would work out that when these ppl were 14 (if we're on about 30 year olds) the lass they'd now be having sex with wouldnt hav even bin born....i just think its a very big age difference thats all and i dont agree with it i think sumone must be a bit sad and pathetic if they have to go out with someone that much younger than them but thats just my opinion... xxx
  3. Yosef Ha'Kohain

    Yosef Ha'Kohain Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 11, 2001
    Messages:
    20,386
    Likes Received:
    5
    Location:
    Zion
    Some men want a trophy girlfriend, but thats no sadder than someone our age pulling a stunner to show off....

    But if we're talking about love, how is it sad or pathetic? You can't help who you fall in love with and society looks upon this relationship as acceptable.

    I personally think ti depends on the girl, some are still children at 16 some are extremely mature... But I'd much rather see 16 year olds dating older men than been sent off to war.
  4. rachel

    rachel Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 12, 2001
    Messages:
    4,724
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    happy happy!! :)
    s'pose u cant help who u fall in love with that is certainly very much true but personally if a 30 year old man was goin out with a 16 year old girl i'd think he was a bit of a saddo thats all tis just my opinion we're all entitled to em...!! xxx
  5. Yosef Ha'Kohain

    Yosef Ha'Kohain Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 11, 2001
    Messages:
    20,386
    Likes Received:
    5
    Location:
    Zion
    but your opinions are often wrong :D

    ste was much older than you, was he sad?
  6. wallyjumblat

    wallyjumblat Registered User

    Joined:
    Jul 24, 2003
    Messages:
    2,638
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    newcastle
    teenage girls always go for older felleahs because the majority of sed girls tend to be slightly mor mature than the average spotty teenage guy !

    Althoug myself i would not sleep with a sixteen year old and im only 23 . The fact remains that the age of consent is 16 ! so whats the problem?

    Ok if i was the father of a 16yr old girl and she braught home some one i considerd a friend or any one else 20 od years older than her then ad kick seven colours of shite out of em but at ther end of the day if io raised her rite i wudnt be botherd, id trust her, wudnt be happy but hey thats life!

    I think the difference in maturity of someone 16 and someone 35 cud cause problems but how many people do each of us no with a slighlty hiogher than average age diff between them that go out wi each other?????
  7. GeordieLee

    GeordieLee Registered User

    Joined:
    May 27, 2002
    Messages:
    18,458
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Newcastle
    Is the same true for an older woman dating a younger guy?
  8. rachel

    rachel Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 12, 2001
    Messages:
    4,724
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    happy happy!! :)
    hes only 3 years older than me..i think...actually 4 years older than me but it aint that much of an age gap not as bad as 15 years like we were meaning before awww fucking nice one joe i was trying to block that boys existence outta ma mind n u've reminded me of it ggrrrr!! :mad: :mad: ;) xxxx
  9. Yosef Ha'Kohain

    Yosef Ha'Kohain Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 11, 2001
    Messages:
    20,386
    Likes Received:
    5
    Location:
    Zion
    ste has lush eyes :love: :love: :love:

    is it ok for a 21 year old to go out with a 36 year old?
  10. rachel

    rachel Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 12, 2001
    Messages:
    4,724
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    happy happy!! :)
    what...??!! was ya on about man lol!! xxxx bout the eyes bit i mean!! and i know what ur gonna bring up ma mate amy seein ashley cos shes 21 n hes 36 okays point proven lol!! xx
  11. El Maracca

    El Maracca Registered User

    Joined:
    Jan 25, 2002
    Messages:
    5,814
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Heaton
    what about when i was seeing rachel?
    she is ten year older than me. is that wrong?
  12. Yosef Ha'Kohain

    Yosef Ha'Kohain Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 11, 2001
    Messages:
    20,386
    Likes Received:
    5
    Location:
    Zion
    just reminding you how nice ste's eyes are :d

    I can get lost in them :love:

    I never knew ur friends age - was just using yours :D
  13. SeniorChem Si

    SeniorChem Si Registered User

    Joined:
    Feb 14, 2002
    Messages:
    7,771
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Getting it on
    what if it was the chick chasing the bloke though, not the other way round???
  14. JockB

    JockB Registered User

    Joined:
    May 28, 2003
    Messages:
    7,253
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Newcastle
    I agree with most of what has been said. It's definetly down the indviduals however I hope big Tommy gives Martin Platt a beating. ;)
  15. BRID

    BRID Has name in red. Staff

    Joined:
    Jan 31, 2003
    Messages:
    8,239
    Likes Received:
    218
    Location:
    Ever changing
    so love and sex can only be compatible if the age range is within our current "socially acceptable range"??? - PISH

    Its physically, mentally and emotionally fine - the only issues we have are with our own screwed up attitudes when it comes to sex.


    People would rather sit their kids in front of 2 people kicking the living shit out of each other than god forbid see 2 people getting it on - its a puritanical attitude.

    Ironically its probably these attitudes over sex and age which has us in the mess we are "supposed" to be having with paedophiles these days - If you make it out like a 30 year old having sex with a 16 year old is wrong - then thats the fantasy people are going to develop, and advance on.
  16. JockB

    JockB Registered User

    Joined:
    May 28, 2003
    Messages:
    7,253
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Newcastle
    I don't think that's true - paedophilia is a sick act, not a fantasy. :rolleyes:
  17. BRID

    BRID Has name in red. Staff

    Joined:
    Jan 31, 2003
    Messages:
    8,239
    Likes Received:
    218
    Location:
    Ever changing
    Thats a bit of a "daily mail" conclusion though... I completely agree its wrong - but as a nation we are too busy coming to snap judgements and demonising, than looking at the real issue.

    The person commiting the act isnt thinking "im doing a sick act" - for them its a fantasy.

    A few hundred years ago, people used to get married to 13 year old girls... In fact it was the order of the day as far as social climbing was concerned - does that mean we lived under a paedophile society back then?
  18. paul

    paul Registered User

    Joined:
    Aug 21, 2002
    Messages:
    4,047
    Likes Received:
    1
    a lot comes down to the people in concern,

    martin was argueing that its ok, but did you see his face when tommy started shouting about sarah, martins step daughter, his face changed there, which kind of indicates that he doesnt totally agree with what hes doing:D
  19. Yosef Ha'Kohain

    Yosef Ha'Kohain Registered User

    Joined:
    Nov 11, 2001
    Messages:
    20,386
    Likes Received:
    5
    Location:
    Zion
    I'm sorry but what?

    Because they think they're doing no wrong ti shouldn't be demonised?!?!?!? If a rapist thinks he's done no harm cos she was unconcious does that make it ok?

    Paedophelia is more often rape than relationship, granted there are lolitas out there - just like there are also women who provoke men into hitting them...
  20. JockB

    JockB Registered User

    Joined:
    May 28, 2003
    Messages:
    7,253
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Newcastle
    He was proper bricking it :lol: ;)

Share This Page